What are some ways to show your love for your special person? Most people will say with gestures and words, such as, “I love you” or taking them out on a romantic date. But does that really work? I don’t think so: everybody says I love you, but is it true? Everybody takes their loved ones on expensive dates, but is that really proof of love?
There are all kinds of ways to show you love someone, but there are 7 specific things you can do to show them you love them. They aren’t always easy and you may even feel embarrassed. But the result will be worth it.
1. Plan a special date night.
Have you ever had a hard time showing your partner that they’re loved? Maybe it’s because you feel like you don’t have enough money, or maybe it’s because your busy schedules don’t leave time for romantic dates. Whatever the reason is, there are plenty of ways to show your love to the special person in your life, no matter what life throws at you!
- Make sure to plan ahead; avoid last-minute surprises.
- Find a babysitter if needed so that both parties are able to relax and enjoy themselves more.
- Don’t do the same thing every time. Surprise them by planning something different!
- If you’re on a budget, stay in and cook together! A home-cooked meal can be very intimate and really help bring two people closer together. If you want to save money but still go out, try cooking a big meal at home once and then taking leftovers for lunches throughout the following week after work or school.
- If you’re planning something more extravagant than usual, make sure that your partner is available on that night so as not to come off as inconsiderate. Remember that they may have plans of their own, so this will help ensure they are able to attend wherever (if anywhere) they need to be instead of being forced into an awkward situation due to conflicting schedules with other friends or family members.
2. Show affection every day.
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In a world that tells us love is all around, but it’s hard to find, we must sow the seeds of affection as often as possible. To you, this could mean buying your sweetheart a cookie from their favourite bakery every day after work. The important thing is to make sure that two of the most important people in your life know how much they mean to you, and daily acts of kindness are the best way to do this.
- They’ll appreciate the gesture. At first, it may seem like your significant other will take these kind gestures for granted—after all, who doesn’t like cookies? But when you show them your affection every day, it helps them form a habit of cherishing small things done for them by you or anyone else—which is what makes these little gestures so special in the first place!
- It’s never too early (or too late) to start showing love. As long as we’re still breathing on this Earth, there’s always time to be with our loved ones and let them know how important they are to us. Whether they live next door or thousands of miles away on another continent, there are countless ways that even something as simple as sending them a daily text message can go a long way toward making their day better than yesterday’s. Whether you’re celebrating an anniversary or just hanging out together at home one night, no matter the occasion there should be no more than 24 hours between how many times you tell someone how much they mean to you and how many times that person tells you how much he/she appreciates being with you
3. Set aside some time just to talk.
Setting aside some time just to talk with your special person is an excellent way to show that you care. These conversations can serve as a great way to open up and get new ideas on how each other feels.
What’s the best method for having these talks though? It’s important to keep distractions to a minimum, but what are distractions? Too much television/computer/phone. Make sure they’re off so that you’re both able to concentrate on one another and the topics at hand.
Let the conversation flow naturally, don’t force it. This is when asking questions comes into play. Both of you have had different experiences from each other, which means that there’s plenty of knowledge and stories out there for the learning! Ask about their opinions on certain subjects and about the things going on in their day-to-day lives, whether it be work or school or a trip they took last week.
Talk about yourself too! We all need support from our significant others every once in awhile, especially when we’re going through tough times at work or with friends or family members in our lives. Let your special person know how you feel by opening up and talking with them
4. Surprise them with a gift!
Sure, you love your special friend. But do they know? Are they aware of how happy they make you and how much you appreciate their presence in your life? If it’s been a while since you’ve gone out of your way to show this person just how special they are to you, there’s no better time than the present. Here are some ideas for making it known that you care.
Although these tips are geared towards romantic partners, the same general principles apply for showing appreciation to anyone who means a lot to you: family members, friends, teachers and mentors—basically anyone who deserves a thoughtful gift from the heart.
- Think about what they’d like:
Before gifting anything at all, take note of what this person enjoys doing on their own time. Do they have an active lifestyle? Maybe get them something to help with their favorite hobby (e.g., golf club accessories). Are they more into relaxation and taking things easy? Find something that will make it easier for them (e.g., a spa gift card or massage oil).
- Personalize the gift:
Is there a message or meaning behind the item? Get creative! Buy them something with sentimental value that can be cherished as an heirloom (e.g., antique jewelry box), or maybe put together an activity kit including things that represent important aspects of your relationship together (e.g., tickets from that special date, etc.) If physical space isn’t an issue, consider setting up a small display for them in your home highlighting those key moments in time (photos work well here!). Also consider framing old photos so there’s even more of a tangible reminder available when needed.
- Make sure it is something you can afford:
Spending too much money on one gift can ruin the experience if it puts you in financial overdrive afterwards—as can giving something too cheaply made or otherwise shoddy feeling! When thinking about price point, try to think about
5. Small gestures make a big difference.
Trying to decide what to get for your significant other for their birthday, anniversary, or another special occasion? Don’t sweat it-instead of desperately scrounging through pages and pages of options on Amazon and spending an hour wondering if the seller mixed up your order with another customer’s, just ask yourself what feels best. Chances are you already know how to show someone you care about them. Most likely you do so in small ways because they mean a lot-your partner probably loves that little detail you give when you leave a note inside their lunch bag or the way you both laugh at the same moments when watching a movie together. It’s all these small gestures that really add up over time and make a relationship feel unique.
If your love language is gifts , then by all means go get something they’ll like! If it’s physical touch , why not cuddle up next to them while watching TV? If quality time is more your thing, plan out fun dates where the two of you can spend plenty of uninterrupted time together that doesn’t involve smartphones or laptops (this is getting easier as our society gets more disconnected from reality due to technology). The most important part is to be genuine about whatever gesture you choose and make sure it feels authentic . Try to avoid having ulterior motives behind doing anything for your partner-if it feels forced then it won’t feel as good in either person’s heart or mind.
6. Do something you know your partner would like.
When it comes to saying “I love you,” actions speak louder than words. And when it comes to actions, there’s nothing more effective than doing something for your partner that you know he or she will enjoy.
What does this mean exactly? Well, it depends on your relationship. For example, if you’re dating someone who would love a date to the roller derby with a beer and nachos afterward, that’s an excellent way of showing him or her that you care. If you’re married and going through some tough times together, the perfect gesture would be something like taking your spouse on a day trip somewhere fun and relaxing just the two of you. No matter what kind of relationship you have, though—whether it’s brand-new or decades old—the point is to do something thoughtful that really shows how much they matter to you. The perfect gesture can vary from person to person (and over time), but these seven ideas are good places to start!
7. Cook together!
A lot of people love going to cooking classes, and we’re no exception. When we became an official couple, we took a month-long culinary trip to Italy together. Although we’d both been around the kitchen before, it was still a new experience for us both—and it was a great way to bond as a couple. In fact, it’s one of our favorite memories together. When preparing for the class (or just in general), it’s always nice to try something new and fun with your partner. Cooking is so much more than just putting some ingredients into a pot and forgetting about it for two hours like you did when you were an awkward teenager stuck in your parents’ basement trying not to burn the marshmallows on top of the chocolate chip cookies you started baking because your mom asked what you wanted to do with your spare time on Christmas vacation from elementary school. There are so many different ways that cooking can be done, whether it’s all-out gourmet meals or simple snacks like toast topped with butter and jelly. One thing’s for sure though: there will always be an ingredient or two that you don’t know how to pronounce!
When you show your love, it makes both of you feel good.
It may sound cliché, but the expression that love makes the world go ’round is actually true. When you show your special person that you love her—and when she does something for you—both of you feel good.
What does it feel like to be on the receiving end of a kind gesture? Well, let’s see…
It feels great! It makes you feel like someone cares about and values you. You feel loved and respected. You look forward to what’s coming next: will there be another surprise in store? Will the other person keep making an effort to show their love in this way, or is this just a one-time thing?
When you’re on the giving end of a thoughtful gesture, it also feels pretty great! Your partner feels valued, cared for, and looked after. This feeling inspires reciprocation and helps strengthen your bond with them. Let’s hear more from two people who live this kind of relationship every day.
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